This post is by Nancy Jardine
I’m starting this blog post with an apology. If I’m a bit tardy in commenting this time around please forgive me – I’m hoping it’ll be because I’m having a whale of a time at my niece’s ‘hen party’.
I’m taking an approximately 300 mile round trip to the fantastic city of Edinburgh, Scotland.
I adore visiting Edinburgh, and selfishly, I’m delighted that my lovely niece has decided to stay closer to home so that more of her friends and family (read old fogies like me) can attend!
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Are we going in ‘themed’ attire? Not that I know of…yet! But I expect maybe something will ‘brand’ us together. I had fun a few years ago when I went to a ‘sixties’ one- the ‘vintage’ clothes bought from the internet. I’m a hoarder of all sorts of things, but sadly not the same size as I was back then!
(photo from wikimedia)
So it’s a ‘Hen Weekend‘.
What are the common names for this event? In Scotland (and UK generally) we tend to call it ‘Hen Night, or Henny Party’. European countries tend to have a translation of the word ‘hen’ as well. The US often names it a ‘Bachelorette Party’ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bachelorette_party and I’ve heard it’s not unknown for Canadians to call it a ‘Stagette Party’. ‘Kitchen Tea’ in South Africa is a new one for me, though! Hens, and the ilk, for OZ and NZ are fairly similar to the European names.
Traditions for a ‘Hen’ event vary a lot and have also changed quite staggeringly over time.
Googling a little, I found some interesting comments on the origins. It’s been said that the ‘hen night’ started in the North African, Middle Eastern and Asian culture and the ‘hen’ part relates to the application of, and wearing of henna patterns by the bride on the eve of her wedding – to ward off evil spirits and bring good luck.
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photo: http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:A_aesthetic_henna.JPG
(I do hope if these patterns means anything, then it’s all good!)
Another blog post states the tradition started during the reign of King Charles II (1630-1685) where the bride would contemplate her ‘bottom drawer’ goods and would sit quietly at home with the women of the family. (Sounds like a whole lot of fun to me – *big grimace* )
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/the-origins-of-hens-night-and-some-hens-night-ideas
There are plenty of ideas out there which mirror the traditions of the stag event and the tendency nowadays is for it to be a bit ‘over the top’ in a partying sense. These events are not often held on the traditional eve of the wedding, but leave plenty of time for the bride to recover her poise and equilibrium *wink*.
http://ezinearticles.com/?The-History-of-the-Hen-Night-and-Stag-Night&id=3824974
When I got married in 1974 in Glasgow (Scotland), on the eve of the wedding day friends, family and neighbours of the bride would gather together – usually in the bride’s home. There would be stacks of home baking, gallons of tea and coffee, and horror of horrors!! – Alcohol for those who wanted to indulge themselves. It would be a noisy, though more restrained, party than generally happens today, since the bride had to look fantastic the following day.
All of that is pretty tame, but the traditional bit in my neighbourhood was the ‘bride procession’.
Sometimes an open cart would be acquired (driver provided) and the bride would be seated on top – as on a ‘float’ during a parade. The bride would be dressed up in frilly undies, or some other frivolity (thermals underneath for that biting Scottish wind and rain) and wore an old veil. She would hold an enamel potty/ ceramic chamber pot
which held a layer of salt in it- salt for luck and prosperity.(Plastic potties are useless as they don’t sound the same)
This ‘potty’ would be rattled in front of anyone who happened to be in the streets (with especially funny comments if it was a man) as the procession wended it’s way around for an hour or two- coins expected to be added to the collection.
There was happy singing – usually a raucous clamour – as the procession traipsed the local streets, though the event was always held in good humour by all the neighbours. Wooden spoons were banged on metal pots by all the walking ‘attendants’ to alert all to the ‘bride’ coming, the hooters and tooters hard to ignore. People would hang out of the windows and join in with ribald wishes for the bride. (We’ll skip the part where these were often more than a bit risqué)
If there was no ‘open topped’ vehicle available, the procession walked around. The bride rarely made a fortune out of it, but that wasn’t the point. Any money collected was supposed lucky and some brides set it aside for a ‘layette’ for the first baby.
Embarrassing for the bride? Absolutely! But it was a way of having fun with friends and neighbours who would perhaps not be attending the wedding.
Weddings, or the promise of, appear in all of my novels, but the most challenging to write was the ‘wedding scene’ in my historical novel –The Beltane Choice. Set in AD 71 it took a bit of imagination to create the wedding vows for Lorcan of the Brigantes and Nara of the Selgovae. Nara, I’m afraid had no ‘hen party’. If such a thing was celebrated then I’m afraid I’ve found no record of in my researches…
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What sort of ‘hen do’ traditions can you add? I’d love to know (and I promise to respond as soon as possible… *big smiles*)
Some more sites to view ‘hen/stag’ details : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bachelorette_party
http://voices.yahoo.com/hens-night-traditions-2444976.html?cat=41
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I wish you all a spectacular weekend!